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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 12/25/2009 6:34:50 PM
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stellaluna
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There seems to be the inability to understand the difference between mental illness and emotion. If a loved one dies, you should feel sad. Maybe even for awhile. If you lose your job, you should feel angry. Maybe even for awhile. You are supposed to have emotions. Lack of them indicates a problem. If you are sad or angry or whatever a majority of the time, for no apparent reason, then you probably need help determining why. But understand: doctors are not there to listen to a person go on and on about their feelings. They are there to determine a problem, prescribe a medication or other treatment, and send you to a specialist if you need one. That initial prescription is often needed to get someone to a point where they can think clearly about their situation and further treatment.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 12/27/2009 4:47:48 AM
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Now, I have not read all of the posts (by a long way) but want to add my opinion. My doctors say that I have had multiple mental health problems; recurrent unipolar depression; generalised anxiety disorder, avoidant personality disorder and Anorexia/Bulimia Nervosa. Also emotional dependence on others and implied drug dependence. I was unmedicated as a child and some of the behaviours I learnt were coping mechanisms for others, I used to be very controlling about what I ate to cope with the stress that having AVPD caused; being unable to express those feelings to other because it prevented from from forming close relationships caused me to be very detached and sad. When my sort of boyfriend died I was a bit of a wreck; I was only 15 and I had miscarried his child 2 years earlier and his wife was blaming me for everything and I went to the doctor and said I can't cope and he gave me anti anxiety meds and antidepressents. This allowed me to deal with situation, I made a plan of what I would. I decided to stay away from his wife and my parents; it allowed me to confide in another man, which relieved my anxiety and our relationship pretty much stopped my depression. I stopped taking antidepressants and was happy for years. Until he left me. But my point was, there is a reason that they give antidepressants to people who are depressed because of a loss, it can in the short term help them to feel in control again and be able to deal with the situation. Many people say that causational depression (because of death, abuse etc.) shouldn't be medicated, but in the example of abuse, it gives the abusee the confidence in themselves to leave. Now, I have been on antidepressants and anti anxiety meds for about 10 years. If I went to a doctor now they would probably say I have depressive realism and a mild anxiety disorder. I have no intention to stop taking antidepressent because currently I am happy. There were two things which annoy me when I read stuff on forums about lots of things, not just mental health (actually breastfeeding too); the first that people seem to assume that they superior knowledge of mental health than a doctor. Now, I can probably say I have that opinion of myself, but I do have a degree in psychology and worked as a mental health worker for a time also. Secondly, I forgot what I was going to say, but I am sure I was really annoyed about it.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 12/27/2009 10:14:01 AM
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Just to be clear, when I referred to the above mentioned dr. as a quack I did a search for the term 'quack' but only found your most recent post (478) where the term was mentioned. Perhaps you could give me a post number? quote:
I do not feel that all doctors are quacks. As has been said before, it can be very difficult to tell how someone is meaning something in forums. While I can understand that you feel a certain doctor is a quack, perhaps it's worth you making it very clear that you're talking about a specific doctor, not about doctors in general?
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 12/27/2009 10:35:52 AM
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ORIGINAL: Pink. Some people have a hard time with the term "quack." I have used that term before and was just clarifying what I meant. I have a hard term with the term 'quack' (as I've said before). However, you haven't used it in this thread before as far as I can tell so I was wondering why you said 'the above mentioned dr'. I'm just a little confused as to what post you're referring to (in this thread).
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/13/2010 9:57:46 PM
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I know a doctor who was called Dr. Nitwit by one of his patients!
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/18/2010 6:47:27 PM
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Some people think that those of us who suffer from mental illness are not really ill, just lazy. I don't agree with that. I feel that if I'm not feeling well, mentally or physically, then I don't want to do anything. The people who tell us this do the same thing when they don't feel well, so why should they think that we be different? In other words, who are they to judge us for what we do? Kind of like removing the plank out of one's own eye before removing the speck out of the other person's eye, so to speak. Do you agree with me here? Why or why not?
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/18/2010 7:08:37 PM
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I feel that if I'm not feeling well, mentally or physically, then I don't want to do anything. The people who tell us this do the same thing when they don't feel well, so why should they think that we be different? I think there are people who say they can't do something because they have a mental health problem, just as there are people who say they can't do something when they have a physical health problem. In the same way, there are people who struggle through with their mental health problems, just as there are people who struggle through with their physical health problems. There is nothing wrong with being challenged over what we can or can't do, either physically or mentally.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/18/2010 7:20:02 PM
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I think there's a fine line in not being able to do something and refusing to try to do something, i.e. go to work, do an activity, run errands, etc. I know plenty of people with chronic physical illness or permanent disability who would never dream of not attempting to lead a normal life every single day, regardless of how they feel or what kind of pain they're in or what kind of inconveniences they run up against. Also, if you have a physical illness, you get treatment. I know many people with diagnosed mental illness that refuse the treatments prescribed to them. That, to me, is irresponsible not only to the people themselves, but also their family members and others they come into contact with.
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Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/18/2010 8:00:24 PM
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ORIGINAL: stellaluna I think there's a fine line in not being able to do something and refusing to try to do something, i.e. go to work, do an activity, run errands, etc. I know plenty of people with chronic physical illness or permanent disability who would never dream of not attempting to lead a normal life every single day, regardless of how they feel or what kind of pain they're in or what kind of inconveniences they run up against. I knew a lady who worked right up until the time her fatal brain tumor had her bedridden. She once told me that she worked for as long as she could because she knew that if she didn't she would struggle with depression in addition to the brain tumor. quote:
Also, if you have a physical illness, you get treatment. I know many people with diagnosed mental illness that refuse the treatments prescribed to them. That, to me, is irresponsible not only to the people themselves, but also their family members and others they come into contact with. Not everyone who has a physical illness gets treatment, for a variety of reasons. I think there are also a variety of reasons why people don't get treatment for mental illnesses too. Also, there are people who have one or more mental illnesses that they are being treated for and they still can't work. quote:
ORIGINAL: Mollymouser I think some lazy people use illness (physical and mental) as a handy excuse not to do what they don't want to do. I also think that some lazy people may be inclined to use a myriad of other excuses, too. This doesn't mean that everyone with a mental illness is lazy ~ but some are. And people without mental illness can be lazy, too. If someone has accused another person of being lazy, I would hope that the accused and accuser could have a reasonable and civil conversation about why there is the perception of laziness (whether true or not.) I agree with this.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/20/2010 11:28:13 AM
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/28/2010 12:59:23 PM
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ORIGINAL: stellaluna I think there's a fine line in not being able to do something and refusing to try to do something, i.e. go to work, do an activity, run errands, etc. I know plenty of people with chronic physical illness or permanent disability who would never dream of not attempting to lead a normal life every single day, regardless of how they feel or what kind of pain they're in or what kind of inconveniences they run up against. Also, if you have a physical illness, you get treatment. I know many people with diagnosed mental illness that refuse the treatments prescribed to them. That, to me, is irresponsible not only to the people themselves, but also their family members and others they come into contact with. any suggestions as to how the 57 million uninsured Americans can get treatment? there are no magical free clinics, sliding scale fee docs or other such common suggestions in the area where i live.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/28/2010 1:13:06 PM
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There's a link right above your post that talks about alternative treatments that may be low-cost or free. I figure if you can afford to get a diagnosis, you can figure out a way to get medication. Most SSRIs come in a generic formula, making them quite affordable. (I just checked prices on a whole bunch of different ones and the most expensive was $29.99 for 30 tablets.) Some of them are on the Walmart $4.00 plan, which anyone can afford. Some pharmaceutical companies offer discounts. When I didn't have insurance, my doctor would give me samples. And finally, there is also a difference between truly not being able to afford treatment and refusing to be treated.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/28/2010 4:05:00 PM
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ORIGINAL: stellaluna There's a link right above your post that talks about alternative treatments that may be low-cost or free. I figure if you can afford to get a diagnosis, you can figure out a way to get medication. Most SSRIs come in a generic formula, making them quite affordable. (I just checked prices on a whole bunch of different ones and the most expensive was $29.99 for 30 tablets.) Some of them are on the Walmart $4.00 plan, which anyone can afford. Some pharmaceutical companies offer discounts. When I didn't have insurance, my doctor would give me samples. And finally, there is also a difference between truly not being able to afford treatment and refusing to be treated. ever consider that you could be figuring wrong? i cannot take SSRIs. i have tried several, with terrible results. as for discounts..that is a joke. i have never known anyone to get a huge discount on their meds. i had a shrink charge $300 out of pocket if you were uninsured. needless to say I cant afford that. i went to the local mental health clinic. they didnt treat anxiety. you had to be bipolar or schizophrenic or suicidal. there is little if any help available. i trust in God and wait.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 12:38:31 AM
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I know several people who've received significant and substantial discounts on their medications -- they just had to fill out some forms with the pharmaceutical companies (and provide a doctor's prescription, of course.) Have you considered obtaining some of these application forms and taking a copy with you to your doctor (the next time you go) and seeing if you qualify for any of the pharmaceutical discounts? WalMart has 16 different "mental health" drugs (in a variety of dosages) available on their $4 generic list, and a number of them are not SSRIs. Have you considered taking a copy of that list to your doctor (the next time you go) and asking if any of those may be of some assistance? If you need assistance with tweaking your budget and getting the most out of every dollar (so that prescriptions and doctors' visits are more affordable), you may want to consider starting a thread over in the Finance Forum -- there are some very clever and creative people who post over there who always have very practical and useful suggestions and recommendations. [/quote] My budget has been "tweaked" by my 10 months of unemployment. I did start a part time job today. The only med I can take that helps is not on Wal Marts list. It isnt expensive.....its the doctor visit that is expensive.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 8:36:53 AM
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Mental Illness does seem to be treated differently financially, even by insurance companies. If I had diabetes, every Dr. visit would be a twenty dollar copay, or my insurance would pay 90%. With mental illness, they pay 50%. If it's an illness (and it is), I really don't understand that. In order to stay on meds, one has to keep going to the doctor for refills. I'll be honest, I have as little patience with a mentally ill person who won't treat as much as anyone, but sometimes it is a catch 22. I think the real solution would be for mental illness to be seen as an.....illness - financially and in all other ways.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 9:20:04 AM
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In order to stay on meds, one has to keep going to the doctor for refills. Do you actually have to see a doctor? Once I'm at the right level, and we're happy with how I'm doing and there are no problems, I don't need to see a doctor each time I need a prescription. I'm just curious (and need clarification) whether you have to have a consultation.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 10:26:54 AM
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ORIGINAL: heremainsfaithful Mental Illness does seem to be treated differently financially, even by insurance companies. If I had diabetes, every Dr. visit would be a twenty dollar copay, or my insurance would pay 90%. With mental illness, they pay 50%. If it's an illness (and it is), I really don't understand that. In order to stay on meds, one has to keep going to the doctor for refills. I'll be honest, I have as little patience with a mentally ill person who won't treat as much as anyone, but sometimes it is a catch 22. I think the real solution would be for mental illness to be seen as an.....illness - financially and in all other ways. And that is for those who have insurance. The many of us who dont....you can forget it. The fees are ridiculously high to see these psychiatrists.
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 10:48:05 AM
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Now that I think about it, the reason I go every two months is because I have to have my lithium blood levels checked. So people not on lithium might not have to as much. I have to say, I cannot imagine being without insurance. I have bipolar, and my H is diabetic and on an insulin pump. No way could we afford all our junk without coverage. I feel for people in that situation. Uggh...I can't wait to get my glorified body!!
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RE: Mental Health Debate - One Stop Thread - 1/29/2010 11:40:27 AM
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One of my doctors required maintenance visits, the one I have now does not. However, the one that required the visits did allow me to skip sometimes if I told him I just didn't have time to come in or couldn't afford to. I agree that there can be frustration when the medical/insurance establishment doesn't treat mental illness the same. But I also think that people with chronic (debilitating) physical illnesses will find a way to get treatment, whereas they might let treatment for a mental illness lapse. It goes both ways. If you live alone and work in solitude, do what you want. But if you have a family that depends on you and work that requires you to interact with others, I think there is an obligation there to be as mentally healthy as possible, even if you think you don't need __ (whatever treatment has been prescribed). That's all I'm saying.
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